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[Separation Anxiety ‘Drama’ : How to Help Your Child Deal with It?]

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The school is going to start in less than 2 days. Are you ready for the ‘drama’?               Here are few tips you can try to help your little one dealing with his anxiety on the first day of school. Before School 1. Introduce school activities at home .  Let your kid get use to few school activities such as drawing pictures, story telling and   circle time. 2. Visit school and classroom .  The reason why every school is having Orientation Day is to let the students be familiar with school environment, how big the school is and what an actual classroom will look like.   3. Meeting with teacher .  Meeting a stranger for the first time may be an unpleasant experience for your kid. Introduce his teacher could help him reduce his anxiety on the first day of school later when he recognise some familiar faces.   4.   Be positive . Your child can sense if you are feeling guilty or worried leaving them at school. Be positive and confident. Tell them fun things about

6 Kemahiran Asas Yang Perlu Anak Anda Tahu Sebelum Masuk Tadika

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Sekolah merupakan satu persekitaran baru buat kanak-kanak. Ia adalah tempat di mana seorang kanak-kanak mula untuk belajar secara formal, belajar untuk berinteraksi dengan orang lain dan membina kemahiran bersosial. Sebelum mendaftarkan anak-anak ke tadika, ibu bapa hendaklah memastikan anak-anak mempunyai beberapa pengetahuan dan kemahiran asas berikut: 1. Mahir menggunakan tandas Kebanyakan tadika meletakkan syarat kepada kanak-kanak yang mendaftar ke tadika supaya mahir menggunakan tandas. Ini adalah sangat penting bagi memastikan sesi pengajaran dan pembelajaran tidak terganggu dan berjalan dengan tenang. Ini termasuk juga kanak-kanak tersebut tahu membasuh alat sulit sendiri, 'flush' mangkuk tandas dan mencuci tangan selepas selesai.  2. Menguruskan diri Antara kemahiran asas menguruskan diri yang perlu seorang kanak-kanak tahu ialah makan dan minum sendiri tanpa bantuan daripada orang dewasa. Apabila anak-anak sudah mencapai umur yang sepatutnya, ibu bapa harus

4 Jenis 'Parenting Styles' dan Kesannya Kepada Anak

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      Pembahagian jenis-jenis Parenting Styles  ini telah diasaskan oleh seorang ahli psikologi perkembangan bernama Diana Baumrind melalui pemerhatian beliau terhadap perlakuan kanak-kanak pra sekolah. Selepas melanjutkan kajian dan mejalankan temuramah dengan kanak-kanak dan ibu bapa, beliau mendapati kelakuan kanak-kanak bersangkut paut dengan cara bagaimana ibu bapa mereka membesarkan mereka. Kajian ini kemudiannya dilanjutkan oleh Maccoby dan Martin pada tahun 1983 dan kemudiannya telah mengkelaskan parenting styles kepada empat jenis. Berikut adalah 4 jenis parenting styles  dan kesannya kepada anak. Illustration by Joshua Seong. © Verywell, 2018 1. Authoritative Ciri-ciri: Rutin harian yang tetap dan berstruktur seperti waktu tidur mestilah sebelum pukul 10 malam, peraturan-peraturan di dalam rumah yang mesti dipatuhi seperti makan di dapur dan waktu menonton televisyen tidak lebih daripada 2jam sehari. Peraturan yang ditetapkan bersesuaian dengan usia dan kemam
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[How To Build Self-Confidence in A Child?] Kids who have confidence in themselves are more likely to become a proactive students and do not afraid to try new things. Thus, it is important for a young child to build self-confidence so that they can learn and absorb much more. How to build self-confidence in a child? Praise wisely Praise is a fundamental thing parents should do to their child as it can boost up the child’s self-esteem. However, if praising is done wrongly, it can be damaging to the child. Overpraising can lead to over confident. Over confident child will become laid back and no spirit to become better thinking he/she is already “the best” and may also tend to look down on others. Praise appropriately according to the child’s effort. When he/she had failed, instead of say “You have done a great job”, say, “I know you had put a lot of effort, you can try again next time.” 2.  Let them make choice Giving your children to make their own choice can lif